If you make these 3 commitments to somebody, ensure it's somebody truly special and who you can throw your heart into in a relationship. Why? Because these 3 commitments are quite serious.
I promise to never know you.
Make a great promise to never know the individual you love. What does It mean? I mean, every day commit to learning about them over and over again as if they were someone completely new. Date them. Court them. Be worked up about them. The most horrible thing you can ever do in a functioning relationship is fall into complacency and allow for things to get uninteresting. No, you need to absolutely fall head over heels in love anew with the person you love. That keeps the fire going.
I swear to never need you.
Promise to never need them to be anything apart from what they are. In reality true love is loving someone for exactly who they are in reality and precisely who they aren't. When we begin looking at the individual across from us and demanding that they change fundamental things about themselves, you know that you two are headed straight for difficulty when someone starts attempting to manipulate who you are way down on the inside. So don't even be that person. Instead, celebrate your similarities and celebrate your differences. That's how you know you really have something actually special on your hands.
I swear to rock your socks off each day
Sounds a little bit daft, and it truly is, but love is fun. Love is flowery combat. Love is lively and kind. If you intend to really bring something new and fun to the table every single time you see somebody, you can keep the levels of attraction extremely high and always be having a very good time. Sure, there'll be times where you get involved in fights, but keep the disposition of desiring to rock someones socks off every day and you will be always growing with someone in a relationship.
So make these 3 commitments to someone special.
Who knows? Lightning could strike.
I promise to never know you.
Make a great promise to never know the individual you love. What does It mean? I mean, every day commit to learning about them over and over again as if they were someone completely new. Date them. Court them. Be worked up about them. The most horrible thing you can ever do in a functioning relationship is fall into complacency and allow for things to get uninteresting. No, you need to absolutely fall head over heels in love anew with the person you love. That keeps the fire going.
I swear to never need you.
Promise to never need them to be anything apart from what they are. In reality true love is loving someone for exactly who they are in reality and precisely who they aren't. When we begin looking at the individual across from us and demanding that they change fundamental things about themselves, you know that you two are headed straight for difficulty when someone starts attempting to manipulate who you are way down on the inside. So don't even be that person. Instead, celebrate your similarities and celebrate your differences. That's how you know you really have something actually special on your hands.
I swear to rock your socks off each day
Sounds a little bit daft, and it truly is, but love is fun. Love is flowery combat. Love is lively and kind. If you intend to really bring something new and fun to the table every single time you see somebody, you can keep the levels of attraction extremely high and always be having a very good time. Sure, there'll be times where you get involved in fights, but keep the disposition of desiring to rock someones socks off every day and you will be always growing with someone in a relationship.
So make these 3 commitments to someone special.
Who knows? Lightning could strike.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling ready to make these 3 special commitments to someone? Going through a long distance relationship? Dig into these long distance quotes for some perspective on how to keep your love strong.